My own fault I got a consilidation loan and over the past 3 years my debt has now grown to nearly £20000 🙁
It's all in my name as my husband and I have seperate bills and accounts, but if i decided to go down the trust deed route would his wage etc have to be counted as I feel rather foolish and would not like to tell him i'm struggling to this extent.
he has his own loan, csa etc and all he pays is the food bill and the Virgin package atm.
I do have the car in my name but that was purely due to the fact he was working when the seller came round and it's only worth about £500 but we use it for work and getting his daughter on access visits so we really need it.
Any advice would be gratefully received
Hello newsm and welcome to the trust deed forum.
Do you have any thoughts on how much you could afford to pay towards your debts each month (perhaps via a trust deed) after you have paid for all of the essentials that you need to pay for?
Are you property owners? If you are could you tell us how much your home is worth and how much is owed on any mortgages?
That information will help us to confirm whether or not a trust deed might be appropriate for you.
It would be normal to look at all of the income and expenditure for the household if you were looking to do a trust deed (or indeed any other debt solution). That's simply to make sure that each party is bearing their fair share of the household costs (otherwise your creditors might be getting a raw deal, or indeed your husband might be getting a raw deal). His costs will of course be taken into account as well.
I could afford roughly £300 a month and am a council tenant, my husband earns less than me and this is the reason I pay the rent, council tax etc as I think after his bills he has roughly only £100 spare
Hi newsm.
From the information provided it looks as though a number of options might be available to you.
Working through the numbers with a suitably qualified adviser should put you in a position to make an informed decision about how to proceed from here.
Hi newsm
TDA is correct, while your husbands wages are taken into account in the overall calculations, he is still allowed his own personal expenses. From the info provided, there may be a couple of options suitable.
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Sorry for being slow , I realise I will have to show proof of my wage and outgoings but will I have to get this off my husband aswell
Thanks TDA for your help, I'm worried as my husband isn't the greatest at keeping correspondence, so although I could bring in a payslip it would have to be printout statements from his bank account at most 🙁
I'm off next week Tues to Thurs so will contact a debt help company and speak to some-one about the best option and I can't keep being this worried or stressed
It's a good idea to speak to someone newsm so that you know where you stand. This is likely to bring you some relief in itself.
As you need to know specifically what correspondance you will need it might be best to speak with a trust deed provider (that you would consider using) directly rather than a more general debt help provider.
Thanks for your advice I have spoken to a very woman and have someone coming to see me Monday about a trust deed, I think it was scary as i had to admit to myself & hubby the full scale of the problem after I did that (and hubby was brilliant about it) the relief was great
Hi Newsm
That's great to hear that you have taken the bull by the horns. Just make sure that you have everything in writing and that you fully understand the procedure before you sign any documentation. If you have any other questions, once you have met with the advisor, feel free to ask us.
Julie
Julie
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It went really well today and feel alot more calmer, was told that because LLoyds tsb had most of my debt they might not agree, so was talked through all the options. company is CS Corporate solutions, guy was brilliant
Hi newsm
Glad to hear that your meeting went well today. Sometimes just talking it over with an advisor puts your mind at rest!
Julie
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Lloyds TSB are usually no problem to deal with, newsm, as long as your proposals meet their minimum criteria. Presumably your adviser will know this, so no need to worry too much.
Thanks I'm going to be paying back 40pence in the pound which the company has said is good so everything is crossed