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15/02/2014 7:12 pm
Well after years of fighting my Trustee , my ex wife will wait no longer and is forcing the sale of my childhood home as she wishes to be taken off the deeds and mortgage , which is fair enough .
When I started my deed in 2006 I thought it would take 3 years to sort out my life and get back on track , its now coming up for 8 years .
In that time I have constantly been threatened and harassed by my Trustee and accused of many things , never has he had the guts to go to court and prove it or meet me face to face .
I am now being forced out my childhood home through no fault of my own , due to his stalling tactics and blatant fee building .
Further more he is under investigation by 2 regulatory bodies but this has been going on for months , I have no faith in the AIB , IPA or the ombudsman to have the will or teeth to do anything to protect the person in the street . In the street is where I will be , at least I will have my faithful dog for company .
My Trustee has ruined my life and my health and forced me to give up my home , I hope he is satisfied with ruining my life , I am in tears as I write this and part of me has died , the feeling of dread and frustration is overwhelming my home means everything to me .
I can not describe the feelings I have at the moment , I just can't put them into words , this is the worst I have felt in my life about anything , Karma is a bitch payback wise , I hope my Trustee does not ruin the life of anyone else ,when clearly he has not been doing his job . Thanks to those who have helped me through this site .I feel betrayed and worthless , thank you for destroying my self worth and giving me the worst time of my life , you know who you are .
15/02/2014 11:11 pm
I'm not commenting on your situation as I don't think there are any words that would be of any use. I do however hope you've had a large glass of something and a someone with you to give you a hug
Saabrina
15/02/2014 11:25 pm
Hi pinalta.
I don't know what the right thing to write is. I've been nervous to write the wrong thing.
I'm so sorry that you find yourself in this position and I hope you'll try to surround yourself with all the support that you can.
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15/02/2014 11:31 pm
Hi Pinalta
I feel the same as Saabrina and TDA. Could not find words suitable for the despair, frustration and anger you describe.
I can only wish that this horrible journey is taking you somewhere better and that divine intervention brings you some justice or an end to the nightmare you describe.
I hope you have friends and family to support you at this time.
x
16/02/2014 11:51 am
"New beginnings are often disguised as painful endings..."
Life always offers you a second chance...it's called tomorrow.
Protected 2014...due to finish 2018...early finish after selling house!
18/02/2014 11:07 am
Hi Pinalta
It's probably no comfort, however without agreement, your wife will require to proceed with an action of Division and Sale which may take some time. Hopefully the IPA will have concluded their investigations, although being the cynic I am I thought the Trustee could drag his heals and wait for this to happen to stop him having to do something.
Best advice is to keep on the IPA's back and advise of your concerns over the time period taken. Particularly in light of the position that one Offer of Composition is valid in one case, while the other is not.
Mark
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18/02/2014 8:37 pm
Hi
Just to say if you are facing homelessness you can approach the homeless casework team at your local council. Ask for an assessment and they have 28 days to do this. Shelter Scotland can also give you excellent advice. You will not be left without a roof as the circumstances you describe are beyond your control. I hope this helps a little.
22/03/2014 9:15 pm
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Originally posted by pinalta
Well after years of fighting my Trustee , my ex wife will wait no longer and is forcing the sale of my childhood home as she wishes to be taken off the deeds and mortgage , which is fair enough .When I started my deed in 2006 I thought it would take 3 years to sort out my life and get back on track , its now coming up for 8 years .
In that time I have constantly been threatened and harassed by my Trustee and accused of many things , never has he had the guts to go to court and prove it or meet me face to face .
I am now being forced out my childhood home through no fault of my own , due to his stalling tactics and blatant fee building .
Further more he is under investigation by 2 regulatory bodies but this has been going on for months , I have no faith in the AIB , IPA or the ombudsman to have the will or teeth to do anything to protect the person in the street . In the street is where I will be , at least I will have my faithful dog for company .
My Trustee has ruined my life and my health and forced me to give up my home , I hope he is satisfied with ruining my life , I am in tears as I write this and part of me has died , the feeling of dread and frustration is overwhelming my home means everything to me .
I can not describe the feelings I have at the moment , I just can't put them into words , this is the worst I have felt in my life about anything , Karma is a bitch payback wise , I hope my Trustee does not ruin the life of anyone else ,when clearly he has not been doing his job . Thanks to those who have helped me through this site .I feel betrayed and worthless , thank you for destroying my self worth and giving me the worst time of my life , you know who you are .
hi pinalta just found your story I'm so sorry.
